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09 November 2014 @ 04:16 pm
Hi everyone :) New to Community  
I have been Dressing Lolita for about 4 years now, since my BFF showed me BTSSB in SF on my visit there. I pretty much wear it everyday for about a year now. My wardrobe is split between Sweet and EGL styles, and I have interests in many of the styles and sub-styles including but far from limited to these. I have not yet reached out to any of the communities, so decided to venture forth into the local community. My social skills aren't that great, but I guess there is only one way to fix that...start being social :p I am a Transgender Woman - MTF, BTW, hopefully that's not an issue in this community, but it has created issues in other areas of life, but am hopeful the Lolita community will be a kind and open minded one.

I'm feeling a little down today, because I just flew back in from Manhattan to Houston last night and the airline lost my garment bag with all but one of my ensembles.....mostly brand :( .....so I am waiting to see if they find my 7 lost outfits....before I start mourning their loss. Anyhow, that's depressing and I need to get out of that state of mind and think and hope positively!

I would love to know more about the meetups, being a lone Lolita can be lonely! It would be nice to be around people that understand what its about....and it would be nice to be in a group of people without getting called little bo-peep or asked if I lost my sheep 50x a day lol It don't bother me that much but it does get pretty old pretty quick!!

I like lolita cause it brings me to a different place mentally than I would be if I were not in lolita... and I think that new place is better. I work in an industry surrounded by "adult themes" and Lolita gives me a mental break away from that.
fancy_chanfancy_chan on November 9th, 2014 10:17 pm (UTC)
I Hope I did this right, I have never used Live Journal before today!
Senjomikachanyo on November 11th, 2014 06:40 pm (UTC)
Hi there..srry for the late reply...as you can see this place is dead..everyone went to fb https://www.facebook.com/groups/HoustonLolita/

You don't have to worry about not being accepted because you are trans. Lolita is one of the few things in life that is all encompassing. it does not matter who you are because everyone is very accepted. its fashion.
also, sorry to hear about you losing your luggage.. that is always difficult to deal with.

If you ever want to talk you can message me on lj (i dont participate in the fb group). im always on here so lol